Today mothers are in constant struggle with themselves and other woman in order to become the perfect mother. Women today are working forty hour jobs and after work coming home and taking care of the children. Other woman are stay at home mothers who have feelings of guilt due to the fact that they have malicious thoughts about their children or are experiencing guilt because they left their jobs and therefore feel incomplete. Finally we see mothers that have children; however have decided to continue with their carriers and are viewed by others as selfish individuals that have no business being a mother. So who would be considered the perfect mother. In reality their is no such thing as a perfect mother; people do not consider that there are other factors that play in a females life. Other mothers such be consider this and stop critizing and judging other woman because of their choices. because if we dont we give men the right to due as well. For instance the are first woman and then sisters and mothers. They a People are not perfect and mothers are people so they are not perfect either.